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为了孩子们能安全度过青春期,作为家长,您在日常生活中面临了哪些困扰?应该怎样帮助孩子渡过呢?今天的文章,就分享一下。
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经过我学家庭教育11年多来,我接触到的孩子很多,既有青春期的孩子,也有比较严重的孩子。青春期孩子逆反常见的原因有:不跟家长沟通、不尊重父母的价值观、亲子关系紧张、学业受挫等等。
我总结了一下,主要有以下两点原因:
“孩子进入青春期后,随着生理和心理的变化,他们心理上会发生一系列的变化,他们对于独立的渴望会与家长的观念有冲突,但是又不愿意让家长过多参与。”
“这是孩子自我意识的发展过程,源于孩子的成长,他们试图用这样的方式来证明自己长大了。他们对事情可以自己做决定,但这是他们成长的需要。家长们经常是孩子不听话的时候,你“要这样,不要那样”,他们会反驳你:“为什么你要那样?我的手上的水你不去洗,要不我就不洗!”
以上这些话,相信每个家长都会对孩子说过。随着孩子的不断成长,他们会产生自我意识,家长给孩子贴上这样的标签,可能会引发孩子的叛逆。
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作者 | 汤米
编辑 | 墨菲
第一心理主笔团 | 一群喜欢仰望星空的年轻人
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